Two years into my coaching career, I was diagnosed with complex PTSD stemming from childhood, military, and sexual trauma. I realized then that if I had endured a lifetime of trauma, then so have so many other women and that my story could empower them to change theirs.
While I help women grow their online businesses through a trauma-informed lense, so much of my true power lies within helping woman destroy every obstacle that has tried to destroy them in life or motherhood.
And as a Human Design Projector (we only make up 20% of the population) and an empath, my life's work is rooted in helping others feel seen in their hurt, identify and obliterate their pain, and rise above the ashes that were meant to suffocate them.
I was also conditioned to believe that having money was wrong, and that was keeping me broke and with a broke b*tch mindset. Money gives me access to services I enjoy (hello housekeeper and laundry service) and it allows me to take vacations and live in the fullest expression of myself. I was tired of pretending that I was "bad" for wanting it.
And so for an entire year, I practiced different deconditioning and reprogramming methods that allowed me to heal substantially (I'm still a work in progress), and I knew that even though my life's work is rooted in coaching others, my focus needed to be on the immediate epidemic of eldest daughter syndrome.