The World You Live In Is Built on a Lie. Not the Truth — A Distortion of It.

Truth exists in three layers. And we've built entire civilizations on the wrong one.

We didn’t build this world on lies, exactly. That would almost be easier to dismantle. 

We built it on something far more insidious: distorted truth. Someone’s subjective experience of something real — taken, forced onto everyone else, and sold as the way things actually are.

That’s how we got here. 
That’s how we ended up with people justifying their existence. 
Gaslighting themselves into smallness. 
Managing other people’s perceptions of their own lives.
 Living inside a story that was never theirs to begin with.

And if we’re serious — actually serious — about creating something new, we have to go back to the beginning. Back to how truth actually works.

Layer One: Absolute Truth

Absolute truth is irrefutable. It’s the thing that doesn’t move regardless of who’s looking at it. 
Science can verify it. 
Math can prove it. 
You can argue your feelings about it all day and it will still be exactly what it is.

I was looking at a door frame when this landed for me. 
That door has a measurement. Seven feet. Five feet wide. You can measure it in feet, in inches, in millimeters — the conversion changes, the number doesn’t. The door is what it is. That’s absolute truth. It exists whether you believe it or not.

This is where reality is anchored. This is the layer that holds.

Layer Two: Subjective Truth

Subjective truth is where the human enters. It’s someone’s genuine, embodied experience of an absolute truth — and it’s just as real as the first layer. It just isn’t universal.

That same seven-foot door? Walk someone who’s four-foot-eleven through it and they’ll say, wow, what a tall door. Walk someone who’s six-foot-five through it and they’ll say, this door is short. Both of them are telling the truth. Both of them are having a real experience of the same irrefutable thing.

Subjective truth is yours. It’s mine. It’s the texture of how we move through the world. And it’s valid — every single layer of it. The problem isn’t subjectivity. The problem is what we’ve done with it.

Layer Three: Distorted Truth

Here’s where it breaks.
That same person who is four-foot-eleven walks through the door, has their real experience, and then turns around and says: this is a tall door. This is the only way anyone can experience this door. You will see it as tall. That’s the rule now.
The six-foot-five person’s experience? Erased. Irrelevant. Wrong.

That’s distorted truth. When someone’s subjective experience gets weaponized — extracted from its context, universalized, and pressed onto everyone else as the singular acceptable reality.
It still has a fingerprint of something real. That’s what makes it so dangerous. It’s not a complete fabrication. It’s a truth that’s been stretched so far from its original shape that it’s become a cage.

And we’ve built entire worlds inside that cage.

When Your Self-Trust Hasn’t Caught Up to Your Truth

I had a client — a founder, a builder, someone who has created significant things — tell me what he really wanted. He wanted to cash out of his company. Take six months. Do nothing but create. Come back and see what emerged.
When I asked him why he wasn’t doing it, he said: because it wouldn’t be the responsible thing to do.

There it is. Right there. He wasn’t operating from his truth. He was managing someone else’s distortion of it — an inherited narrative about what responsible leadership looks like, who gets to rest, what success is allowed to be. His self-trust hadn’t caught up to his truth yet. He knew what was real for him. He just didn’t trust that it was allowed to be.

That’s what distorted truth does at the individual level. It makes you negotiate with your own knowing. It makes you justify your existence to a standard that was never built around your reality in the first place.

Now scale that up. Into families. Into organizations. Into nations. Into the entire architecture of how we govern human life.

This Is Why Governance Is Broken — and What Has to Change

I’ve spent years building a body of work around the architecture of how authority and decision-making actually function inside human systems. And one of the things I’ve come to understand, deeply, is this:

Governance can only be legitimized when it is grounded in absolute truth.

That’s it. That’s the line.
Governance must acknowledge subjective truth — it must create containers where people can experience what they’re governed by in their own way, from their own reality, through their own sense of what is real and true for them. That is non-negotiable. Every person must feel at home in the system they live inside of.

But that subjective experience cannot become law. 
It cannot be extracted from the individual, universalized, and imposed as the standard everyone must live by. 
The moment that happens, you’ve left governance and entered distortion. And distortion, at scale, destroys people.

It gaslights them. It makes them justify their existence. It forces them to perform a reality that doesn’t belong to them. We’ve watched this play out across every system we’ve ever created — political, economic, religious, organizational. The distortion becomes the foundation, and then we keep rebuilding on top of it and wondering why nothing changes.

Everyone wants a new world right now. I hear it everywhere. But you cannot build a new world on the same corrupted foundation. You cannot create liberated systems using governance logic that was designed inside distortion.

The cosmology of governance itself has to change.

That means returning to absolute truth as the anchor. It means honoring subjectivity without letting it collapse into the kind of distortion that erases everyone who experiences things differently. It means building systems that are alive enough to hold the full range of human experience without flattening any of it.
That’s the work. That’s what this is pointing toward.
Truth isn’t fragile. It doesn’t need you to protect it or perform it or justify it. What truth needs is to not be distorted. What human systems need is governance rooted in what is actually real — not what one person’s subjective experience decided was real for everyone.
When we get that right, everything downstream changes.

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Meet Alexis Frank

There are three things in life I’ve never enjoyed being: tired, uncomfortable in my clothes, and unable to afford the things I want.

Three things in life I had been for awhile: tired, uncomfortable in my clothes, and unable to afford the things I want (first world problems, am I right?)

Those things served a purpose in my life, but no longer suited who I believe to be, the best version of myself. 

Let me give you some background

My brother and I were raised by a single mother, in NYC, who dedicated her life to teaching special education students. It goes without saying that we never had a lot of money. We never questioned where our next meal was coming from and we got to travel to beautiful places (on a tight budget of course), but we knew the reality of our finances at a very young age.

So in order to save my mother the ungodly burden of co-signing on loans for college, I joined the Army at 17, which for 6 years, made me both tired and uncomfortable in my clothes (those boots were not the business). But it was at this point, I experienced having money, and I knew I liked that. But the rest had to go.

I met my husband before I got out of the military, and we had our son. I worked for a few small businesses, spent some time as a SAHM, which I loathed (don’t judge, it ain’t for everyone), and finished up a few degrees. This left me both tired and unable to afford the things I wanted (which was just a nice vacation without a screaming baby for two nights). So again, I knew something had to change.

Fast forward to when we got the opportunity to change duty stations. I was finishing up my MBA and I was able to finally land a position in corporate America, which I thought I had always wanted (Alexa: play “living the American dream). I tried my best to make the most of it and to be grateful for the opportunity, but my commute was horrible, my pantsuits were tight (I was pregnant with our third child), my heels hurt, and most of my meetings could have been emails. 

Then the pandemic hit, and I got to work from home. As horrible as it was, I finally thought to myself “this is how I do it. I get to work from home in my pajamas, make money, spend more time with my kids, and take naps.” But I was wrong again.

When my husband changed duty stations again, I was placed on a high profile program with my company that demanded mandatory overtime. I knew then that corporate life was never going to give me the time freedom I needed, and that starting my business was the only way I could build the life I wanted which included leggings and vacations.

The Filing Cabinet was born out of my realization that I had been coaching people ever since my teenage years. My friends and colleagues have always seen me as the go-to expert for pretty much any issues they have ever had. I pride myself on that, and I want to use over 15 years of that experience to coach you through leaving your corporate job, realizing your entrepreneurial potential, and helping you scale your life and business to unprecedented heights (and in your sweatpants, if you’re anything like me).

There is no blanket version of success, and I suspect you are here because you are tired of the version we have been sold. We don’t dream of labor and hustle culture is toxic in our eyes. But we have the drive to build something big, so that we can take advantage of the fruits of our labor, far sooner rather than later

Are you finally ready to spend more time doing things that light up your soul? Then let’s get started

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