Pivotal moments in my life came when I realized that setting boundaries was essential for my independence and self-awareness. I found myself in a challenging situation with my mother, who often prioritized her needs over mine, which prompted me to make the tough decision to ask her not to follow us across the country. This decision marked the beginning of my journey toward seeking a career in California. Throughout this process, I discovered the significance of those small "aha" moments that guide us towards our true purpose, and I want you to recognize these in your own life too. 
As I shifted away from traditional religion and embraced a mindset focused on financial prosperity and spirituality in 2023, my path to healing and self-discovery took unexpected turns. A seemingly routine day led to a profound emotional experience that steered me toward exploring alternative healing practices like breathwork and understanding my human design as a projector. Persistent health challenges, such as brain fog, became catalysts for embracing holistic practices and self-compassion. Through tarot card readings and past life regressions, I learned the power of self-acceptance and intuition, leading to clarity and personal growth.
Navigating family dynamics posed its own set of challenges, particularly when releasing toxic relationships. Overcoming brain fog and healing from past trauma were monumental in my personal development, requiring me to confront subconscious issues hindering my progress. A tough encounter with my brother highlighted the complexities of family dynamics, underscoring the importance of healing from past conflicts to move forward. Through these experiences, I've gained valuable insights into reclaiming power and increasing wealth, and I invite you to join our community as we pursue personal and financial empowerment together. 


Episode Highlights: 

Reclaiming Power and Wealth:
Personal experiences lead to understanding the power of small "aha" moments in shaping destiny and pursuing true fulfillment.




Navigating Family Dynamics and Self-Discovery:
Releasing toxic relationships, healing from trauma, and understanding family dynamics for personal and professional growth.

Building Wealth and Empowerment:
Empower listeners to reclaim power and increase earnings by following and engaging on social media.



Three Action Steps to Take:

Identify and Reflect on Your "Aha" Moments: Take some time to reflect on your own life and identify key "aha" moments that have shaped your journey. These are small yet significant realizations that have influenced your path towards personal growth and self-awareness. Write them down and consider how they have impacted your decisions and life direction.


Set and Enforce Personal Boundaries: Emphasizes the importance of setting boundaries, particularly in relationships that may be draining or not mutually beneficial. Evaluate your current relationships and identify where boundaries may be needed to protect your independence and emotional well-being. Start by communicating your needs clearly and be prepared to enforce these boundaries for your personal empowerment.

Explore Holistic and Alternative Healing Practices: Inspired by my journey towards self-discovery and healing, consider exploring alternative healing practices such as breathwork, understanding your human design, or engaging in tarot card readings. These practices can aid in personal growth, help overcome emotional and health challenges, and foster a deeper sense of self-acceptance and intuition. Integrate these practices into your routine to support your journey toward clarity and personal empowerment.


Journaling Prompts: 
Write down your four biggest aha moments that you've had up until this point on your journey.
Prompts: 
Where did you start noticing things? 
Where did you start putting two and two together?
Where were you like, wait a minute? 
Where did you noticeably feel a light bulb go off in your head about how it's been for you?
How you've been treated? 


ConclusionRemember that your journey to self-discovery and empowerment is unique and deeply personal. As you've seen through my experiences, setting boundaries and releasing toxic relationships are essential steps toward reclaiming your power and achieving financial abundance. Embrace those small "aha" moments, for they illuminate the path to your true purpose. It's not your responsibility to make others understand your journey; focus on living authentically and surrounding yourself with those who genuinely support you. Together, let's continue to heal, grow, and pursue the life of prosperity and clarity that we deserve.

Next week’s episode we're talking about when you think that you're healing what you're really not, and we're going to talk about all the things that you think you're doing that are helping you heal, but they're not actually moving the needle very much for you and actually making things a lot harder. 

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Meet Alexis Frank

 
There are three things in life I’ve never enjoyed being: tired, uncomfortable in my clothes, and unable to afford the things I want.

Three things in life I had been for awhile: tired, uncomfortable in my clothes, and unable to afford the things I want (first world problems, am I right?)

Those things served a purpose in my life, but no longer suited who I believe to be, the best version of myself. 

Let me give you some background

My brother and I were raised by a single mother, in NYC, who dedicated her life to teaching special education students. It goes without saying that we never had a lot of money. We never questioned where our next meal was coming from and we got to travel to beautiful places (on a tight budget of course), but we knew the reality of our finances at a very young age.

So in order to save my mother the ungodly burden of co-signing on loans for college, I joined the Army at 17, which for 6 years, made me both tired and uncomfortable in my clothes (those boots were not the business). But it was at this point, I experienced having money, and I knew I liked that. But the rest had to go.

I met my husband before I got out of the military, and we had our son. I worked for a few small businesses, spent some time as a SAHM, which I loathed (don’t judge, it ain’t for everyone), and finished up a few degrees. This left me both tired and unable to afford the things I wanted (which was just a nice vacation without a screaming baby for two nights). So again, I knew something had to change.

Fast forward to when we got the opportunity to change duty stations. I was finishing up my MBA and I was able to finally land a position in corporate America, which I thought I had always wanted (Alexa: play “living the American dream). I tried my best to make the most of it and to be grateful for the opportunity, but my commute was horrible, my pantsuits were tight (I was pregnant with our third child), my heels hurt, and most of my meetings could have been emails. 

Then the pandemic hit, and I got to work from home. As horrible as it was, I finally thought to myself “this is how I do it. I get to work from home in my pajamas, make money, spend more time with my kids, and take naps.” But I was wrong again.

When my husband changed duty stations again, I was placed on a high profile program with my company that demanded mandatory overtime. I knew then that corporate life was never going to give me the time freedom I needed, and that starting my business was the only way I could build the life I wanted which included leggings and vacations.

The Filing Cabinet was born out of my realization that I had been coaching people ever since my teenage years. My friends and colleagues have always seen me as the go-to expert for pretty much any issues they have ever had. I pride myself on that, and I want to use over 15 years of that experience to coach you through leaving your corporate job, realizing your entrepreneurial potential, and helping you scale your life and business to unprecedented heights (and in your sweatpants, if you’re anything like me).

There is no blanket version of success, and I suspect you are here because you are tired of the version we have been sold. We don’t dream of labor and hustle culture is toxic in our eyes. But we have the drive to build something big, so that we can take advantage of the fruits of our labor, far sooner rather than later

Are you finally ready to spend more time doing things that light up your soul? Then let’s get started

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